Dear Readers,
I know you may be curious about the title selection of the blog and my book. Please all ow me to explain my reasoning behind the usage of the word “womanizer”. I’ll be the first to admit the word has many negative connotations such as: cheater, liar, amoral, “sexaholic” and in the case of some shrinks and feminists “closeted homosexual”. Why are there so many negative associations? It’s simple. Women are and always have been placed on a pedestal by society. For a man to seduce countless “innocent” women he must be a monster right? For some odd reason it has always been acceptable or even expected for women to play with men’s hearts at will. They don’t like or appreciate “nice guys”. Ask yourself one question: why is the PUA community so large today? It is because as men have been taught to place women on pedestals and women have been taught to stand proudly upon said pedestal, men today do not truly understand who they are relative to women. You take her out to a nice expensive restaurant, you allow her to buy whatever she wants on the menu and of course once the date is over the only thing you receive in return is a big check from the restaurant and the woman telling you “thanks”. Meanwhile, some guy she randomly meets on the street or in the club fucks her with ease. Of course you then run to sites such as mine searching for information on why this happens. The same story repeats itself over and over again with men across the world. They wonder why “bad boys” or “thugs” get the girl. What these aforementioned bad boys are really getting is what every man wants and that is good sex.
Let’s get back to the pedestal thing. You see once you have an idea cemented in your mind of what a woman is and what a man is it’s difficult for you to see things clearly. What these bad boys are doing isn’t rocket science. It’s simple. They are more honest with themselves when it comes to what they want. Taking a woman out to a nice date may sound good on paper, but it’s really dishonest. You know you want sex, but you’re pretending that you don’t. You’re placing her on the pedestal and using phony romance to step up with her and get the draws. Once she is firmly planted on the pedestal in your mind, then obviously she’s on the pedestal in her mind as well. Now why should she let you fuck her? You’ve made her believe that she is better than you and you have to impress her. This is the biggest mistake there is.
The philosophy of the womanizer isn’t exactly a bad boy philosophy. It’s a philosophy of honesty. Of knowing exactly what it is that you want and going for it. I don’t mean acting as a caveman. What I mean is sexual innuendo. What I mean is sensual touching. What I mean is a mindset of treating yourself as the prize and not her. A womanizer contrary to popular belief doesn’t hate women. He simply wants and pursues pleasure in life. While the nice guy repulses women, the womanizer has women wanting him to stay with them. She wants to own the womanizer. To be frank she wants to own his dick.
This is a game of love. A womanizer loves every single woman that he desires. Some will say it’s lust. I vehemently disagree with this assertion because although there definitely is a lust factor involved, love is also involved. Similar to the pedestal idea implanted in our consciousness the idea of eternal love with one woman is as well. Loving many women is a choice just the same as loving one is a choice. Being painted as a monster because of this quality is absurd.
Now allow me to finish this off when the main purpose of using the word “womanizer”. In the grand tradition of empowering negative words such as bitch or nigga and making it positive, I’m doing the exact same thing. Instead of using the word amoral, I’ll use the phrase “creates own moral code”. Instead of using the word cheater, I’ll call it “playing the field”. Finally instead of using the word sexaholic, I’ll refer to this as “life is about pleasure”.
Follow me on this journey as we’ll use this blog to delve deeply into the eternal game of man and woman.
I know you may be curious about the title selection of the blog and my book. Please all ow me to explain my reasoning behind the usage of the word “womanizer”. I’ll be the first to admit the word has many negative connotations such as: cheater, liar, amoral, “sexaholic” and in the case of some shrinks and feminists “closeted homosexual”. Why are there so many negative associations? It’s simple. Women are and always have been placed on a pedestal by society. For a man to seduce countless “innocent” women he must be a monster right? For some odd reason it has always been acceptable or even expected for women to play with men’s hearts at will. They don’t like or appreciate “nice guys”. Ask yourself one question: why is the PUA community so large today? It is because as men have been taught to place women on pedestals and women have been taught to stand proudly upon said pedestal, men today do not truly understand who they are relative to women. You take her out to a nice expensive restaurant, you allow her to buy whatever she wants on the menu and of course once the date is over the only thing you receive in return is a big check from the restaurant and the woman telling you “thanks”. Meanwhile, some guy she randomly meets on the street or in the club fucks her with ease. Of course you then run to sites such as mine searching for information on why this happens. The same story repeats itself over and over again with men across the world. They wonder why “bad boys” or “thugs” get the girl. What these aforementioned bad boys are really getting is what every man wants and that is good sex.
Let’s get back to the pedestal thing. You see once you have an idea cemented in your mind of what a woman is and what a man is it’s difficult for you to see things clearly. What these bad boys are doing isn’t rocket science. It’s simple. They are more honest with themselves when it comes to what they want. Taking a woman out to a nice date may sound good on paper, but it’s really dishonest. You know you want sex, but you’re pretending that you don’t. You’re placing her on the pedestal and using phony romance to step up with her and get the draws. Once she is firmly planted on the pedestal in your mind, then obviously she’s on the pedestal in her mind as well. Now why should she let you fuck her? You’ve made her believe that she is better than you and you have to impress her. This is the biggest mistake there is.
The philosophy of the womanizer isn’t exactly a bad boy philosophy. It’s a philosophy of honesty. Of knowing exactly what it is that you want and going for it. I don’t mean acting as a caveman. What I mean is sexual innuendo. What I mean is sensual touching. What I mean is a mindset of treating yourself as the prize and not her. A womanizer contrary to popular belief doesn’t hate women. He simply wants and pursues pleasure in life. While the nice guy repulses women, the womanizer has women wanting him to stay with them. She wants to own the womanizer. To be frank she wants to own his dick.
This is a game of love. A womanizer loves every single woman that he desires. Some will say it’s lust. I vehemently disagree with this assertion because although there definitely is a lust factor involved, love is also involved. Similar to the pedestal idea implanted in our consciousness the idea of eternal love with one woman is as well. Loving many women is a choice just the same as loving one is a choice. Being painted as a monster because of this quality is absurd.
Now allow me to finish this off when the main purpose of using the word “womanizer”. In the grand tradition of empowering negative words such as bitch or nigga and making it positive, I’m doing the exact same thing. Instead of using the word amoral, I’ll use the phrase “creates own moral code”. Instead of using the word cheater, I’ll call it “playing the field”. Finally instead of using the word sexaholic, I’ll refer to this as “life is about pleasure”.
Follow me on this journey as we’ll use this blog to delve deeply into the eternal game of man and woman.
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