A true womanizer may have relationships but they always prefer booty calls. Unless you’ve been living under a rock you should know exactly what a booty call is. But just in case let me give you the definition. A booty call is usually reserved for late nights, although it can occur at any time during the day. This is when a man or woman calls his “friend with benefits” for a love session. This is still a type of relationship albeit with no strings attached.
Many people will call this type of arrangement shallow, but let them call it what they will. As mentioned a true player or womanizer creates his own rules and likewise with female counterparts. It’s no secret we all enjoy sex and when a man and woman can forge this type of arrangement they both enjoy the benefits of it. On many occasions both the man and his woman will have a stable relationship on the side that may have grown stale in the sexual department.
Relationships definitely can grow boring. This is especially true if you’ve been together for several months or even years. A booty call escapes the inevitable which is the worry of infidelity. A truly enlightened mind understands it is very difficult for people to remain monogamous. Take a look at the news. We have Tiger Woods, Arnold Schwarzenegger and many other celebrities who find it difficult to remain monogamous. It’s best not to engage in fairy tales and approach life from a realistic point of view. Realistically speaking man and woman can be deeply in love with one another and still be very attracted to members of the opposite sex. On many occasions this attraction leads to sexual encounters with complete strangers.
Dealing strictly with booty calls or open relationships embraces life realistically. Take a look at Will Smith and Jada Pinkett’s marriage. They’re truly embracing life realistically. Yes, one can be deeply in love, but there are still going to be many we are physically attracted to strictly from a sexual standpoint.
Honestly, I still can’t pinpoint the exact period in time when “one man, one woman” became the norm, but I know that ancient Kings and Queens always had many other arrangements from their “main squeeze”.
Make no mistake, I’m not against relationships per se, but I vehemently disagree with the assertion that the only real relationship must be completely exclusive. I say embrace love, embrace sexual attraction and yes, embrace booty calls as well because the more you try to fight your natural state the worse off things can end up. See Tiger Woods and Arnie for prime examples.
Many people will call this type of arrangement shallow, but let them call it what they will. As mentioned a true player or womanizer creates his own rules and likewise with female counterparts. It’s no secret we all enjoy sex and when a man and woman can forge this type of arrangement they both enjoy the benefits of it. On many occasions both the man and his woman will have a stable relationship on the side that may have grown stale in the sexual department.
Relationships definitely can grow boring. This is especially true if you’ve been together for several months or even years. A booty call escapes the inevitable which is the worry of infidelity. A truly enlightened mind understands it is very difficult for people to remain monogamous. Take a look at the news. We have Tiger Woods, Arnold Schwarzenegger and many other celebrities who find it difficult to remain monogamous. It’s best not to engage in fairy tales and approach life from a realistic point of view. Realistically speaking man and woman can be deeply in love with one another and still be very attracted to members of the opposite sex. On many occasions this attraction leads to sexual encounters with complete strangers.
Dealing strictly with booty calls or open relationships embraces life realistically. Take a look at Will Smith and Jada Pinkett’s marriage. They’re truly embracing life realistically. Yes, one can be deeply in love, but there are still going to be many we are physically attracted to strictly from a sexual standpoint.
Honestly, I still can’t pinpoint the exact period in time when “one man, one woman” became the norm, but I know that ancient Kings and Queens always had many other arrangements from their “main squeeze”.
Make no mistake, I’m not against relationships per se, but I vehemently disagree with the assertion that the only real relationship must be completely exclusive. I say embrace love, embrace sexual attraction and yes, embrace booty calls as well because the more you try to fight your natural state the worse off things can end up. See Tiger Woods and Arnie for prime examples.
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