Basic Tips For Approaching Women

1) Be Confident
2) Smile Infrequently
3) Look Her In The Eyes (And her body if you’re bold)
4) Touch Her
5) Compliment Her On Her Level of Physical Attractiveness

How To Please Aggressive Women(Push/Pull Game)

Not every female likes to be captured by a tiger. There are some who enjoy playing the tiger themselves. These women are very aggressive when wanting a mate. They appreciate catching a man. When dealing with a woman who seems to like you, but doesn’t respond to your “push” the way you want “pull” back. Give her space and let her come to you. Many women are rabbits primed to be captured. This woman is a tigress. She knows what she wants and goes after it full speed ahead. “Be desire-less” is the first law of “The Tao of Steve”. In the romantic comedy the Tao of Steve (which inspired the title of this book) a chubby womanizer has 3 rules for picking up the ladies: 1. Be desire-less 2. Be excellent 3. Be gone. If you’re looking for a prime example of the push/pull game check out this flick. He really explains in detail the forces at work.
I’ll give you a rundown on what you’re doing when you are the pursued as opposed to the pursuer. In this situation you’re going to possess the nonchalance of a Zen Buddhist monk. You don’t have a care in the world. Your indifference to her charms and presence will only strengthen her desire for you. Don’t be desire-less to the point of seeming asexual or gay, but act as if you don’t need any woman in the world. Act as a prize. Be cool as a rod of steel. It’s human nature to chase that which rejects you. You’re so impervious to her charms that you challenge her vanity. She begins to think thoughts like “am I not attractive to this guy?” “Has he had better?”. The mind-set you possess is near pimp-like. To her you’re not like every other guy out there swooning at pussy. You’re above that. The godlike indifference you possess becomes very seductive to her and she just has to have you.

In being so difficult to catch for her the challenge has been created in her mind. Women love challenges about as much as they love to talk.

Now inside your divine shell your female lioness will poke and prod until she gets a crack (a smile or show of interest on your part). Stay in your shell until the situation reaches critical mass and she makes her (sexual) move on you. Once she does it is game, set, match. She has in her mind conquered you and in your mind you have conquered her. So be it. You both win.
*For a detailed description of this type of game check out the film “The Tao of Steve” or Robert Greene’s book “The Art of Seduction”.

The Problems I See With Online Dating

Nowadays too many men spend much of their quality time on the computer and most of their “pick up” time on dating sites. I want you to spend no more than 20% of your pick up time online from now on. The reason why I say this is because most of these dating sites have more men than women. Consequently you’ll have 20-50 men all vying for the same woman’s attention. Even if you have the best story to tell her there is a very good chance that she won’t even read it. Why? As I said there is far too much competition. The best case scenario for getting consistent pussy online is 1 of three things: having a great body and using this as your profile picture, having a very handsome face or having tons of social pictures (e.g. Parties, clubs, etc.). Also don’t forget their profile pictures can be fake, manipulated or even stolen. Keep this in mind.
Your valuable time can be spent outside talking to live women as you see them. I know it seems easier to get rejected online rather than in person because it is so impersonal. You’re not going to learn how to talk to women by sitting on your computer all day spamming the same message to every attractive woman you see. This is precisely why I prefer the real thing because frankly it is too damn impersonal.
Your chances of charming a woman off the streets to the sheets in the same 24 hours are exponentially higher than doing it online. I know this from experience.

My breakdown would probably be something like:
70% Women I meet as I’m out and about
20% Women I meet in clubs/lounges
10% Women I meet on social networking sites.

I believe the reason (other than the easier lay) why I strongly prefer meeting women outside is from the buildup of momentum. I remember this time I was waiting for the train and I approached this girl. All I said to her was “Hi” and she looked at me and walked all the way to the other side of the train station. Yet, I noticed another girl behind me looking at me seductively. I approached her and we hit it off. My belief is my momentum whether from a success or a failure is going to carry me. My philosophy is that of a hunter and sometimes when you hunt you have to put yourself in real situations to fail. Only then can a man truly learn from his mistakes. Like many things nowadays online dating is a way to protect you from yourself; to domesticate you.
But Remember if you have a great body, then online dating will be a breeze for you.

True Womanizers Only Approach Women They Desire

Don’t get accustomed to wasting time. Time is truly all we have. When you get out there and start approaching women don’t waste time approaching women you have absolutely no interest in.
My approach would be akin to the seduction style “The Rake” in Robert Greene’s “The Art of Seduction”. One of the keys of the style is unabashed desire for the woman you’re pursuing. How can you realistically have strong desire for a woman who doesn’t set your body on fire when you look at her? You can’t. This is of supreme importance if you truly wish to be successful with women.

On an average day out and about you will see hundreds if not thousands of women. I guarantee your results will be much better if you strictly pursue those who captivate you. Many men attempt to seduce the wrong type of women for them. They would rather pursue the most physically attractive women they see rather than approach a woman they truly want. Do not mistake what I’m saying for pursuing “mediocre” women. Far from it. I simply want you to approach the women your heart wants. Please allow me to expand on this. Take Beyonce for example: she is undoubtedly one of the most beautiful and sexiest women in the world, but I would much rather pursue Keri Hilson. Why? Because the first time I laid my eyes on here I wanted her to be mine.

You must truly want this woman and from there you approach and create attraction from her which reciprocates your own. Your desire for her will make her feel appreciated and wanted. She will feel more alive in your presence. Make it as spiritual and erotic as possible in your mind. Hell, you can even convince yourself (and her too if you’re inclined) that the universe brought you two together. Whatever it takes for you to muster up the courage, use it. Remember you will be in love (and lust) with her for a short time. Make it count.

I must reiterate: only approach women you truly want, embrace your desire for her and take it from there.

That Divine Feeling

There is something about that feeling that words can’t explain.
When inside of her the pleasure almost feels eternal.
Is it the smell of her hair? The sounds that she makes? The words that she squeels that drives me crazy?
Or maybe its the divine feeling of man and woman uniting to become one?
A perfect fit like ketchup on my french fries.
She brings me to temporary paradise and back.
Inside of her I feel as if time itself has ceased to exist.
Nothing else matters but the pleasure we share.
Her soft delicate body feels so smooth to caress I lose myself.
My mind becomes blank as if I’ve reached enlightenment- although temporary.
She does as I please.
For her submission feels like home and my thrust makes her feel protected.
We give each other meaning in a universe devoid of any.
Without her body I’m lost.
Without the ecstasy of the situation I’m as dead as winter.
She loves me to pull her hair and spank her round bottom.
For a man what more can i ask for?
There is nothing else.
All roads, all goals lead to her.
Everything leads to the feeling of her warm body moved about as I please.
She climaxes many times and calls me king.
I leave her alone in the night.
The next day my telephone rings.
She wants more from me and I do too.
Unfortunately I’ve been cursed with this desire that I must have someone new.
The song repeats until I cease to exist.
I loved her for a night- another angel added to the list.

The 3 Variations of Womanizers

“The Tao produces one, one produces two.
The two produce the three and the three produce all things”
Tao Te Ching


1) The Primal Womanizer- The primal womanizer is the original womanizer. This is the man who lives completely through his libido. Life to him is about satisfying his immediate desires. This is the man of little control. All on his mind is pussy. He cannot live without the feeling. This womanizer is a slave to his primal urges. A nut is all he wants from the women he covets.

2) The Conqueror- The conqueror is addicted to power. In his case, once a man gains some control of his libido, pleasure to him becomes more than just fulfilling his sexual desire. It becomes a game of numbers. He wants to be with all women. He needs to conquer. This man lives for challenges. His motto is “the more the merrier”. The thrill of the chase and subsequent victory has surpassed his desire for pleasure for the sake of pleasure. The conqueror is a womanizer of statistics. Call him the Pete Rose of the game.

3) The Seducer- The seducer has gained almost complete control over his libido. He has access to the yin energy of women. This man knows women as well as he knows himself. Life to him has become a game. His pleasure comes from manipulation. All of the tactics women use against him he has mastered. He delights in being an actor, a chameleon in life. Tailoring his character to specific women is very easy. For this womanizer, numbers or his libido mean very little in relation to the man/woman game.

The three of these womanizers all have 1 thing in common which is their love for all women and their difficult time loving only one. Contrary to popular belief womanizers do not hate women. It is human nature to put your needs above all else, but as you read each has a different need. The need of sex is the need of “The Primal Womanizer”. The need of power is the need of “The Conqueror” and finally the need of the game is the need of “The Seducer”.

Always remember, not every man is or can be a womanizer, however all men are intrigued by the idea of “can I be?”. Only you can answer that question.

A Prayer for the Womanizers, Players & Macks

One day you meet her and she gives you the digits
the next day you call no answer
what happened you wonder
you text her and she responds hours later
she claims she was busy
you readily accept her excuse
why would such a sweet girl lie to you when she’s your muse?
too bad another guy had her up in his bed
he met her 10 minutes after you did and the next day she gave him head
you took her out on dates to expensive restaurants
then to the movies, the bars and the clubs
you do all of this over and over again trying to buy love
a woman knows when she wants a man, it’s not about convincing
it’s the words you say and the way you move
I sincerely hope you’re paying attention
now go out and be fruitful you masterful young player
these words that I speak I call the womanizers prayer

Looks vs Confidence vs Coversation

Here is an excerpt from author Tariq Nasheed on where each ranks in relation to the others:
“thaFormula.com - How much does looks have to do with being a mack and where would you rate looks?

Tariq - On a scale of 1 to 10 looks is 8. It's really last on the list. The first thing is confidence and number 2 is verbal conversation and looks is really low on the totem pole. A lot of guys try to think like men when it comes to figuring out women and that's where guys mess up. Men are physical creatures. We will date a bitch solely based on looks. The bitch could be a crack head working at Burger king but if she has a phat ass and a cute face, ****** will still fuck with her. Females date dudes because of the way they make them feel emotionally. Females are more intrigued by what they hear. Guys are more intrigued by what they see. So if you wanna get a guy, it's all in the eyes. If you wanna get a broad it's all in the ears, so you really got to spit game at a broad.”
Tariq is speaking the absolute truth. The way I see it is firstly you must have the confidence in yourself to approach, then the verbal skill to hold a good conversation to pickup women.
Looks definitely help early on when you first approach. Think of being physically attractive as being one step up on the staircase. If you’re not physically attractive you may have to leap that step, but you can still reach where you’re trying to regardless as long as your confidence and verbal skills are up to par.
I want you guys to get into the habit of approaching women regularly with unshakeable confidence with your only goal in mind being a conversation.
For the upcoming week, approach 3 women per day you find attractive with confidence and good conversation. During the conversation the most important thing is to let your personality show, have some swag and let-go of the worry of offending her. Keep the conversation between 5 and 15 minutes and leave at the height of the conversation by exchanging contact information (unless you can bring her back home with you right here) and by contact information I don’t mean Facebook.
Take notes on how each conversation went. Ask yourself questions such as: did you ever doubt yourself? how assertive were you? how interested in the conversation was she? did she touch you?
Keep approaching 3 women everyday until it becomes second nature and you’ll soon have your own routine on how to go about approaching women.

Tips on Finding A Woman's Spot

All women have an aphrodisiac which makes them want to have sex with a man. For some women it’s money(maybe all haha), for some it’s kissing on her neck, for some it’s sweet words, for others it’s aggression and for some it’s indifference. Last weekend I met a recently divorced women who invited me over to her apartment to “hang out”. I didn’t know to much about her we only spoke on the phone once for about 10 minutes and communicated via text message every few days. Naturally when I arrived, I tried my typical approach of walking up to her and kissing her right on the mouth and neck. She enjoyed it a little, but kinda shunned me away, playfully.

I continued doing this for a while and finally she starting to submit, albeit slightly. She let me suck on her titties a bit, but told me frankly “you’re a player, I already know what you’re about. You’re a smooth talker and all you want is to fuck me and that’s not gonna happen”. I laughed at the assertion and carried on. Later we’re on her bed laying side to side talking and kissing a little and I reached over and spanked her ass. She moaned a little, so I asked her if she liked that and she said yea. So I spanked her again and again. I asked her if she wanted it harder and she said “yea”. So, I said “tell me to spank you harder”. She said it and that definitely got my dick rock hard. I then said “you want me to fuck you don’t you” as I kept spanking her harder and harder. She said “yes, fuck me”. I responded, “bend your ass over”. She did and I went behind her, put my condom on and started fucking her. She moaned really nice and loud for me too. I made her call me daddy and beg for me to fuck her harder. I’ll say that we both enjoyed our night together.

Your job is too find a woman’s spot or breaking point. It all depends on her psychology and your ability to be very sexual and confident in yourself. Don’t ever feel defeated by her words, rejections or even if she calls you out on being a womanizer. Women just like us want pleasure, but there are many which aren’t overly slutty who want you to get them deeply into the mood to the point where they have to have you.
Remain confident and focus all of your energy on her and you’ll be enjoying nights like the one I described above.

How To Mindfuck Women

Mindfucking comes in two variations. The first is taking possession of a woman’s mind.
This version is picturing fucking the woman you’re speaking with. Imagine the sounds she would make. Imagine the positions you want to have her in. Imagine the smell of her hair. Imagine every possible detail and live it in your mind. You want the picture to be so clear and the fantasy to be so complete that it becomes a goal in your mind to have her. When we have clear goals our minds draw up plans to make it a reality. The important thing to remember when mind-fucking the woman is to believe that its already happened and will happen again and again. In this state of mind you’ll be extremely sexually excited. Use the excitement to energize your approach and seduction.

Getting into the mindset

You see a beautiful woman standing alone or perhaps shopping in the same aisle as you in the supermarket what you want to do is STOP and visualize quickly, but vividly. Think about how she’ll look naked. Then think about the sensation you’ll feel when you’re deep inside of her. Once this happens once you have to have her you approach with a simple “Hi”. If you’re verbally adept then throw out a good conversation starter. For example if you’re in the supermarket and you notice she has ground beef in her shopping cart you can ask her if she’s making Lasagna.

As the conversation goes on continue the mind-fuck. Look her in her eyes with yours full of burning desire as the two of you converse and see her going downtown on you. A beautiful angel she may be, but this angel enjoys a good fuck as much as any devil.
Mind-fuck her brains out then proceed to do the same to her body. Enjoy.

Dr. Wendy Walsh Discusses Reasons Why Men Cheat

This is Dr. Wendy Walsh on CNN Newsroom. She discusses reasons for and signs of a male who cheats on his woman. Personally, I found this to be complete nonsense, but still wanted to share anyway. What's your opinion on what her points?

Men, Stop Putting Women On Pedestals

Whatever you do don't put women on the pedestal. It may feel right because this philosophy has been instilled in you since childhood, but look at the results. If you're not succeeding then obviously it's time for fresh tactics.

Before(A Poem By MackDee

yes I am full of confidence
shouldn't i be?
I am facing rejection or being accepted
my approach won't be weak
nor will it be too strong
now isn't that funny
she faced with getting an asshole
or the man of her life
wow what a hard choice
I am face with having a lovely lady
or a stone cold bitch
now that's not cool
body and face does look right
her personality may be a fright
might not match up with mine
but damm that might be a great piece of ass

--
*Mack Dee*

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Welcome To The Womanizer Game Blog

Dear Readers,

I know you may be curious about the title selection of the blog and my book. Please all ow me to explain my reasoning behind the usage of the word “womanizer”. I’ll be the first to admit the word has many negative connotations such as: cheater, liar, amoral, “sexaholic” and in the case of some shrinks and feminists “closeted homosexual”. Why are there so many negative associations? It’s simple. Women are and always have been placed on a pedestal by society. For a man to seduce countless “innocent” women he must be a monster right? For some odd reason it has always been acceptable or even expected for women to play with men’s hearts at will. They don’t like or appreciate “nice guys”. Ask yourself one question: why is the PUA community so large today? It is because as men have been taught to place women on pedestals and women have been taught to stand proudly upon said pedestal, men today do not truly understand who they are relative to women. You take her out to a nice expensive restaurant, you allow her to buy whatever she wants on the menu and of course once the date is over the only thing you receive in return is a big check from the restaurant and the woman telling you “thanks”. Meanwhile, some guy she randomly meets on the street or in the club fucks her with ease. Of course you then run to sites such as mine searching for information on why this happens. The same story repeats itself over and over again with men across the world. They wonder why “bad boys” or “thugs” get the girl. What these aforementioned bad boys are really getting is what every man wants and that is good sex.

Let’s get back to the pedestal thing. You see once you have an idea cemented in your mind of what a woman is and what a man is it’s difficult for you to see things clearly. What these bad boys are doing isn’t rocket science. It’s simple. They are more honest with themselves when it comes to what they want. Taking a woman out to a nice date may sound good on paper, but it’s really dishonest. You know you want sex, but you’re pretending that you don’t. You’re placing her on the pedestal and using phony romance to step up with her and get the draws. Once she is firmly planted on the pedestal in your mind, then obviously she’s on the pedestal in her mind as well. Now why should she let you fuck her? You’ve made her believe that she is better than you and you have to impress her. This is the biggest mistake there is.
The philosophy of the womanizer isn’t exactly a bad boy philosophy. It’s a philosophy of honesty. Of knowing exactly what it is that you want and going for it. I don’t mean acting as a caveman. What I mean is sexual innuendo. What I mean is sensual touching. What I mean is a mindset of treating yourself as the prize and not her. A womanizer contrary to popular belief doesn’t hate women. He simply wants and pursues pleasure in life. While the nice guy repulses women, the womanizer has women wanting him to stay with them. She wants to own the womanizer. To be frank she wants to own his dick.

This is a game of love. A womanizer loves every single woman that he desires. Some will say it’s lust. I vehemently disagree with this assertion because although there definitely is a lust factor involved, love is also involved. Similar to the pedestal idea implanted in our consciousness the idea of eternal love with one woman is as well. Loving many women is a choice just the same as loving one is a choice. Being painted as a monster because of this quality is absurd.

Now allow me to finish this off when the main purpose of using the word “womanizer”. In the grand tradition of empowering negative words such as bitch or nigga and making it positive, I’m doing the exact same thing. Instead of using the word amoral, I’ll use the phrase “creates own moral code”. Instead of using the word cheater, I’ll call it “playing the field”. Finally instead of using the word sexaholic, I’ll refer to this as “life is about pleasure”.

Follow me on this journey as we’ll use this blog to delve deeply into the eternal game of man and woman.

The 7 Virtues of Successful Womanizing

1) Fresh breath: Tic Tacs, Binaca, preferably gum. I find chewing gum helps my mind focus and relax. Not to mention it just looks smooth as you chew it during the conversation.
2) Wardrobe: find your style and rock it. Here are some pointers: if you’re built body-wise keep it simple. A polo (golf) shirt or t-shirt and jeans are adequate. If you’re in decent shape, but have some belly flab dress to impress. No matter how fly you may be always keep your shoe game intact. Make sure your shoes are in great condition. Shine them frequently and keep them clean.
3) Body odor: shower daily. Wash your hair a few times a week. Wear a fresh smelling fragrance it could be an expensive bottle of cologne or even something inexpensive like Old Spice.
4) Face: brush your teeth and gargle with mouthwash daily. Get haircuts weekly. If you wear facial hair keep it neat. Don’t go out there looking like a hobo trying to kick game. Look like a man that has women throwing themselves at him. If you play the game right you will have just that.
5) Fingernails: this is often overlooked. I’m not going to let you overlook it too. Women notice your fingernails. They seem to notice every conceivable detail of a man’s appearance, so keep this in mind. I remember once I got a manicure and I’m riding the train downtown. As I’m getting off holding onto the bar, this girl (solid 7 in looks) literally starts to caress my hand. It shocked the hell out of me. This just goes to show even the small details we often overlook go a long way. Even with an inch you can take a mile.
6) Feel sexy: when you approach a woman you want to feel very sexy. I don’t necessarily mean horny, but sexy and raw. Keep a vivid image of your best sexual episode with a woman in your minds-eye and project that unto her. It will show in your eyes.
7) Condoms: this goes without saying. Always wrap up.

The Games Women Will Play With Men

Women are our other half. They represent the yin to our yang and the salt to our pepper. Each is different. Each has their own unique thoughts, feelings, wants and desires. Yet each is also the same as in being mysterious to us. It is as if what constitutes women is completely alien to what constitutes men.
Women are logical during seduction and once conquered completely, they are emotional. The question is can you conquer her?

The games they play during seduction aren’t for the faint of heart. Within a blink of an eye she will have your heart under arrest and completely under her control if you aren’t extremely careful. She will tease you and pull back with a devilish smirk planted on her angelic face. If she thinks it right, she’ll happily give you a taste simply to sweeten your tooth to her. Once you’re eager for a filling taste it comes with a price. The price may be paid for in cash, gifts, or blue-balls to name a few. What’s your poison?

Women tend to enjoy drama in relationships. A boring man is death to a lady. What they crave is excitement. To live the life of a romance novel is infinitely more attractive for them than real life. For a woman it’s better to be with a man desired by many then not desired by any. As strange and illogical as it may seem one still has to wonder how can the cheating (or perceived to be cheating) man draw more interest from willing women than a loyal, committed man? Is it simply human nature of being drawn to what is coveted by others?
Women are natural mothers and perhaps they get a kick out of the challenge of changing a man to their liking. Paradoxically they also want a man they cannot control. This is precisely the essence of the man/woman game. She wants man to win, but expects him to lose. Adam (man) lost and Eve (woman) won. Until Adam wins, the game is on. Eve created the game by disobeying Adam. All was well prior to Adam’s initiation into the game of woman.

Remember a woman will challenge, manipulate and tease as she is a master of the love/seduction game and expects you to comply as her project. She will always expect you to lose. But it is your job to give her what she wants (primal need) and win.

Very Hot Women Want Good Conversation

“If your rap is strong it can’t go wrong” Uncle Fred How To Be A Player

Many guys want to find a magical pickup line or technique to use to attract beautiful women. Don’t waste your time searching for this. The best tool you have is your mouth. Women respond to words. As men we tend to be more visual creatures–which is why we enjoy going to strip clubs and watching porn–while women may enjoy these things, they typically get their “porn” from romance novels. Women enjoy words whether hearing them or reading them in a letter.

The key is to be a good conversationalist. What you want to do is find out as much about her as you can. Figure out what drives her and focus in on this. She will (subtly) tell you how to seduce her. Just pay close attention.
I believe this is the reason why many scientists speculate women are more evolved than men. I tend to agree because the average man is so dominated by his primal urges, any pussy will do the job to attract him. Conversely, the average woman needs to be gamed. She has to feel the words you’re communicating to her. This is a fact. No matter how heavy, broke or ugly you may be if you can demonstrate superior conversational skills with women, then you’ll always have a chance.

The more attractive a woman is the higher probability good conversation will be the bait that attracts her.

Why Women Like Bad Boys, Thugs, Jerks, Assholes , Etc

Thugs, bad boys, jerks, assholes whatever you want to call them are generally more successful with women than the average nice guy. These types of men approach women more and are more upfront and playful with their game. They don’t think about the approach. They just do it.

Fuck Love

What is this sacred thing called love? Why do we “fall” in love? I can’t say.
What I can say is cliche “all is fair”. I myself have been possessed by this stranger of love, only again and again to have the demon exorcised by my own will.
Yet I wonder about it. I wonder what makes up the parts of its character. Clearly it differs from the lusts of the flesh. Or does it?
For me love is a fleeting feeling; A traveling feeling in search of that one perfect woman; The divinely feminine woman. But where is she? Why does she show her warm face full of warmth only to frown and show her canine teeth fully equipped for cutting deep into the flesh of my soul.
Why? Why can she not remain perfect? Is it because she is only a soothing illusion for my eyes? Were her plans all along to trap me and whip me into submission ripe for her cooking? Maybe.
But what she does not know is I never submit. She doesn’t know that she is as transparent as her clear gown. Her body may possess mine but her wickedness, her evil lurking behind her glowing exterior can never fully possess me because she is poison.
She only wants me for a short time. My sweet dear love only wants to prove to her-self the power she has over me. Once she proves it her interest in me diminishes and like Shawn she’s on to the next one.
Now I’m free and clear living out my desires and the wicked beauty returns. She tells me romantic things with her sweet voice and I can’t resist her. I’m right back with the demon.
She’s a double edge, this love. At times she is the warm massage of pleasure. At other times the steel blade of pain stuck deep in my sternum. Why can’t she spare me? Can I not just live to fulfill my most immediate desires? Not with her.
She is sure to wreak havoc on me as sure as the Sun will shine. As soon as I begin to understand her she changes shape. She mixes heat and cold in her pot and stirs my emotions cooly as an assassin studies his victim.
She once told me that I can run but she’s always gonna be there like my shadow in the light. All the cards are hers and the chips too. Once I surrender and begin to wither away she returns to resurrect me with the most glorious smile asking me to play.
Fuck Love

Booty Calls vs Committed Relationships

A true womanizer may have relationships but they always prefer booty calls. Unless you’ve been living under a rock you should know exactly what a booty call is. But just in case let me give you the definition. A booty call is usually reserved for late nights, although it can occur at any time during the day. This is when a man or woman calls his “friend with benefits” for a love session. This is still a type of relationship albeit with no strings attached.

Many people will call this type of arrangement shallow, but let them call it what they will. As mentioned a true player or womanizer creates his own rules and likewise with female counterparts. It’s no secret we all enjoy sex and when a man and woman can forge this type of arrangement they both enjoy the benefits of it. On many occasions both the man and his woman will have a stable relationship on the side that may have grown stale in the sexual department.


Relationships definitely can grow boring. This is especially true if you’ve been together for several months or even years. A booty call escapes the inevitable which is the worry of infidelity. A truly enlightened mind understands it is very difficult for people to remain monogamous. Take a look at the news. We have Tiger Woods, Arnold Schwarzenegger and many other celebrities who find it difficult to remain monogamous. It’s best not to engage in fairy tales and approach life from a realistic point of view. Realistically speaking man and woman can be deeply in love with one another and still be very attracted to members of the opposite sex. On many occasions this attraction leads to sexual encounters with complete strangers.

Dealing strictly with booty calls or open relationships embraces life realistically. Take a look at Will Smith and Jada Pinkett’s marriage. They’re truly embracing life realistically. Yes, one can be deeply in love, but there are still going to be many we are physically attracted to strictly from a sexual standpoint.

Honestly, I still can’t pinpoint the exact period in time when “one man, one woman” became the norm, but I know that ancient Kings and Queens always had many other arrangements from their “main squeeze”.
Make no mistake, I’m not against relationships per se, but I vehemently disagree with the assertion that the only real relationship must be completely exclusive. I say embrace love, embrace sexual attraction and yes, embrace booty calls as well because the more you try to fight your natural state the worse off things can end up. See Tiger Woods and Arnie for prime examples.